Tell me if you can relate to this…
You’re out on the beach and you happen to notice
an attractive woman who seems like just your
“type”. She has long thin legs, a thin waist, big
breasts, and beautiful blonde hair. She looks exactly
like your “dream girl”.
You gather up the courage to approach her and you
open her with a “direct opener” and you begin to
make conversation with her and… it seems to be
going well.
You and her are connecting with each other and
sharing interesting things about each other. You and
her can BOTH feel that “magical spark”.
You begin liking her more and more and she begins
liking YOU more and more…
Your attracting for each other is increasing and
building by the minute but then… she tells you that
she has some important “errands” to run and has to
go meet some of her other friends.
The interaction begins to fizzle out and you begin to
get worried and nervous. So you think to yourself “I
better get her phone number while I still have the
chance”.
You want to ask this girl for her phone number, but
you don’t know HOW?
But for that moment you decide to set your fear of
rejection aside and you ask her in almost a whisper
of a voice “Can I have your phone number?”
She begins thinking to herself for a moment in
response to your question and then she replys back
to you “I don’t really know you that well yet, how
about you give me your phone number instead?”
At this moment you recognize that she is declining
your offer and is rejecting you but she is simply
trying to do it in a nice way that helps you to save
face.
You give her your phone number and the each of
you exit the conversation and go you’ll separate
ways.
You walk away from this conversation feeling
defeated, rejected, and embarrassed.
“We both liked each other” you reason to yourself.
“So how come she didn’t give me her phone
number?” you begin asking yourself.
Why DIDN’T she give you her phone number?
It’s a very interesting question. Why are most men
unable to get a girl’s phone number even when it
seems like there is both mutual attraction?
The reason is because most men do not know how
to get a girl’s phone number in a smooth way
without making it seem like a big deal.
In this article I am going to show you how to get
girl’s phone numbers while being smooth,
effortless, and without even having to ask for it.
The Secret to Getting Any Girl’s Phone Number
There are three (3) main keys and tips that you
must follow to successfully get a girl’s phone
number.
The three (3) key tips to follow when getting a girl’s
phone number are:
Getting a Girl’s Phone Number During the Height
of an Interaction
Making Statements and NOT Asking Any
Questions
Never Saying The Words “Phone Number” to a
girl in the first place to begin with
I’ll explain each point in much more detail below…
Getting a Girl’s Phone Number During the Height of
an Interaction
The absolute best time to get a girl’s phone number
is when the conversation seems to be going good.
This could be when the girl is laughing at your jokes
or sharing a very personal interesting story with
you and the two of you really seem to be
connecting.
The point where most men go wrong when trying to
get a girl’s phone number is that most men ask
girl’s for their phone number at the wrong times of
an interaction.
For an example: Most men wait until the
conversation with a woman begins to fizzle out and
lose steam and THEN they try asking a girl for her
phone number.
But you have to see it from the woman’s
perspective:
She assumes that you and her obviously must not
have THAT MUCH in common otherwise you and
her would BOTH be enjoying the conversation and
their would be NO awkward silences.
At this point of the interaction she is CLEARLY NOT
enjoying spending time with you and is not feeling
any sort of positive emotions and strong
connections, so WHY would she give YOU her
phone number and continue to feel this way?
Trying to get a girl’s phone number once the
interaction begins to fizzle out or worse at the end
of a conversation will usually lead to the failure of
getting a girl’s phone number.
So when exactly is the best and perfect time to get
a girl’s phone number?
Get a girl’s phone number at the absolute height of
her interaction with you.
This could be when she is laughing at a joke that
you may have said or when she is allowing you to
touch her and get physical.
When you and her are both CLEARLY enjoying each
other’s company, the only natural thing to do is for
both you and her to exchange phone numbers with
each other.
Always try to get a girl’s phone number once the
conversation is going well and you can sense that
the girl clearly likes you and is enjoying spending
time with you.
Never Ask A Girl For Her Phone Number, Tell Her
To Give It To You
Notice how in this article I have NEVER said or
mentioned for you to ASK a girl for her phone
number?
There is a very important reason why you do NOT
ever want to ask a girl for her phone number:
When you ask a girl for her phone number, you are
asking FOR HER permission.
There is 2 reasons why doing this is BAD:
If you and the girl are both CLEARLY into each other
and you and her BOTH have mutual attraction for
each other, why do you NEED to ask for her phone
number?
Why wouldn’t you ASSUME that she would simply
give it to you?
By you asking a girl “Can I have your phone
number?”, you are essentially causing her to think
to herself and ask herself “Hmmm… That’s a very
good question, CAN he have my phone number?”
Believe me, doing this is a very easy way to kill the
seductive mood that you have set as well as
destroy ALL of the sexual tension that you have built
AND the girl will begin to think of reasons to herself
about why she CAN’T give you her phone number.
She will reason to herself things such as:
“There are many stalkers and creeps out there…
maybe it’s NOT a good idea to give this guy my
phone number”
“He’s asking me for my phone number… but I don’t
want to seem TOO EASY… I better turn him down
and play hard to get”
Asking for a girl’s phone number is BAD no matter
how you put it.
But if you are unable to ask a girl for her phone
number, how do you actually GET her phone
number?
Tell Girl’s to Give You Their Phone Number…
The best way to get a girl’s phone number is to
TELL HER to give it to you.
Yes, that’s right, don’t ask her to give you her
phone number, TELL HER to give it to you.
ASSUME that she will give you her phone number
and naturally follow your lead.
The truth is girl’s are attracted to men who are able
to lead and give commanding statements.
A girl doesn’t want you to ask her “Can I kiss you?”
and likewise girl’s HATE it when men ask for their
phone numbers and force THEM to make a
decision. Girls are attracted to men who are able to
make the easy decisions FOR THEM.
Could you imagine and picture in your head James
Bond asking a girl for her phone number in a weak
and very submissive voice “Can I please have your
phone number, maam?”
I can’t either. And you know what, it WOULDN’T
ever happen.
James Bond wouldn’t ASK girl’s for their phone
number, he’d tell girls to GIVE IT to him.
What’s the best way to go about telling a girl to give
you her phone number?
Here’s some statements that I’ve used with great
success in the past:
“You seem like a cool girl, let me get your contact
information”
“You’re a very interesting person, what’s the best
way for us to stay in contact?”
The two (2) statements above have two (2) very
important things in common with each other:
I am complimenting a girl at the height of the
interaction where she clearly likes me and is
enjoying my company.
This is very important: Don’t get a girl’s phone
number when the conversation is going BAD, get
her phone number when the conversation is going
GOOD.
NONE of my statements include the words
“phone number”
But why is this?
It’s simple really. Due to the lack of unattractive
men living in today’s society, many women have
begun associating the word “phone number” to
mean a BAD thing.
You saying the word “phone number” causes her to
remember the last 15 unattractive creepy men who
“hit on her” asking her for her phone number.
How do you avoid and get around this problem?
Never include the words “phone number” when you
try to get a girl’s phone number.
The statements I like to use is:
“Let me get your contact information”
A woman KNOWS you want her phone number but
because you do not actually SAY the words “phone
numbers” she intreprets the statement completely
differently.
Another statement that I enjoy using is:
“What’s the best way for us to stay in contact?”
A quick note on this statement: I am not asking a
girl for her phone number in the same way that the
typical beta male or nerd asks for a girl’s phone
number.
My GOAL is to obviously get her phone number but I
do it in a very roundabout way by asking her:
“What’s the best way for us to stay in contact?”
I know that the way most girls stay in contact with
people nowadays is with their cell phones, so I think
about the IDEA but SHE’S the one who SAYS IT.
Most girls at this point will usually respond back to
me with:
“I know, let’s trade phone numbers this way we
can keep in contact”.
And I will agree with them.
Yes, this statement is a bit sneaky but it WORKS
almost everytime.
How to Get a Girl’s Phone Number Every Time
(Without Ever Having to Ask for It)
Getting a girl’s phone number isn’t hard. Most men
just have a very bad tendency to make it hard.
Successfully Getting a Girl’s Phone Number All
Comes Down To:
Getting her phone number during the height of an
interaction
Making statements and never asking ANY
questions
Never saying the words “phone number” to a girl
in the first place
When you know how to get a girl’s phone number
you are able to get dates and move fast with
women much more easily.
But of course getting a girl’s phone number is only
ONE piece of the puzzle. You must also be able to
successfully text girls and get them out on dates
with you.