After you meet a woman and date her, you get to
know her better. You probably start feeling closer to
her and may even find yourself falling in love with
her. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to
you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing
things right. How can you get her to fall in love with
you? Here are 10 ways that you can make a
woman fall in love with you, and at the end of it,
she’s sure to be crazy about you.
1. Display maturity
It’s always said that women mature faster than
guys and are often found complaining about how
immature they act. Impress her with the way you
deal with situations and your outlook on the whole.
Show her how responsible you are about finances,
or serious you are about your career. And
demonstrate your ability to think clearly and
rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict
of interests presents itself.
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2. Romance her
Make her feel good by keeping the romance alive in
the relationship. You don’t have to spend a whole lot
of money doing this. Sure, there isn’t a woman alive
who doesn’t adore flowers and gifts, but you can
also do things that don’t cost a lot but can still
enhance your relationship. Write her little notes or
send her a mushy card. Call her up just to tell her
you’re thinking about her and can’t wait to see her
again. Be attentive and make her feel cherished and
truly special.
3. Faithful
Don’t ever give her occasion to doubt you. Let her
know that you have eyes only for her and the rest
of the world takes a backseat. Let her sense your
commitment to her and your relationship. Being able
to trust someone and truly rely on him is a very
powerful feeling. So many people profess deep
feelings and then cheat on their partners. Don’t just
tell her but show her that she can count on you.
Women need to feel secure and once that is
established, it takes the relationship to a higher
level.
4. Time spent with her is precious
Make it clear that you really treasure the time you
spend with her, irrespective of what you’re doing
together. And prove it! For instance, if she suddenly
tells you she’d like to meet you because she’s
finishing work early and you had something else
lined up, cancel it for her. That doesn’t mean you
cater to her to the exclusion of everything else, just
that you sometimes sacrifice something you care
about to be with her. If she begs you to come see a
movie and you had plans with your buddies, do it for
her and let her know subtly that you did. She will
surely reward you! Women also love it if you do
some girly stuff with them like shopping for lingerie,
and aren’t afraid of sacrificing your masculinity in
the process. It just makes you more of a man in
their eyes!
5. Compliment her
You don’t have to go over the top always telling her
how good she looks or how gorgeous her hair is or
what a lovely outfit she’s wearing. A compliment
has more effect when it is sincere, well timed and
often, out of the blue. While a woman always loves
hearing that she’s looking good, you can’t keep
telling her that. It will lose its charm eventually. A
compliment is valued when there is a surprise
element to it. Telling her how witty you find her, how
her intelligence turns you on, appreciating how
thoughtful and generous she can be, or her gentle
nature, all these are deeper compliments, which,
when paid sincerely, make the recipient feel ten
feet tall.
6. Laughter
Use humor as your biggest ally. If she enjoys your
company and looks forward to seeing you again,
you’re rapidly becoming an addiction, and that’s just
what you’re aiming for. It’s not about making her
laugh over your one-liners and finding you
hilarious. It’s more about being on the same
wavelength and enjoying the other’s sense of humor
too. Or finding humor in similar situations or having
a favorite serial or sitcom, which you talk about and
cracks you up. Finding the same joke funny, or
sharing a smile, draws you closer and makes you
feel like kindred spirits. It’s a great feeling!
7. Learn what turns her on
And use it to advantage. Find out just the kind of
touch that excites her, how she loves to be kissed.
Don’t ever push her for sex or make her
uncomfortable by coming on too strong. Let her see
the effect she has on you, yet keep a strong rein on
your passions if she decides she wants to call a
stop to it. Let her set the pace, and ensure she
understands that while your desires for her are
strong, you will respect the limits she sets. Respect
her and her body and she will appreciate you more
for it. Women love it when they can see how much
they turn you on and yet find you willing to take it
slow for their sake. Also, when you make love to
her, don’t always kiss her or caress her as a lead
up to having sex. Do it just to make her feel special
and because you want to convey that to her, and
she will adore you for it.
8. Give her space
Don’t be possessive and make her account to you
regarding her whereabouts. Let her know you trust
her. Don’t expect her to spend all her free time with
you. Let her have her own life too. Often when in a
relationship, people make the mistake of spending
every waking moment that they can manage
together, and in the process, alienate themselves
from friends and even lose their identity. Let her be
her own person.
9. Thoughtful
You remember little things she told you, and remind
her of it at opportune moments. It may be that she
once mentioned she loves having chicken soup
when she’s got a cold, and you land up with some
when she’s got the sniffles. Or she’s told you how
she adores a particular entrée at a popular
restaurant and the next time you go there, you
order it and surprise her. It makes her feel like you
genuinely listen to her and take the trouble to act on
it and make her happy.
10. “I love you”
And of course, while showing her should give her
the message, there’s a lot to be said for saying it
loud and clear. Tell her how important she is to you.
You might want to think about when you’re first
going to tell her those three words. If it’s too early
in the relationship, she might be skeptical that you
could feel so deeply so soon. And thereafter, it’s not
just choosing the right moment, but making every
small moment count. You don’t have to wait only till
you’re kissing her, or in bed. Saying it when it’s
least expected makes it all the more precious. She
might be telling you something and the feeling just
overwhelms you – tell her at that instant. She won’t
mind being interrupted mid-sentence.